I recently was reading some of the selected writings of Laura Ingalls Wilder and came across the following: It was entitled – “The Stream of Years.”
“Though old age has gray hair and twinges of rheumatism, remember that childhood has freckles, tonsils, and measles. The stream of passing years is like a river with people being carried along in the current. Some are swept along protesting. Others go with the current freely.”
This got me to thinking about some of the old TV series we used to watch and how at times, if you got right down to thinking about it, we could make a correlation between what the writing behind some of those shows had in common with some of what is going on today and how we, as a people tend to address the handling of it.
For instance, take the show M*A*S*H. Watching reruns of this show with the likes of Capts. Benjamin “Hawkeye” Pierce, “Trapper John” McIntire, Majs. Margaret “Hot Lips” Houlihan and Frank Burns, and Cpl. Walter “Radar” O’Reilly, always tends to bring a smile to my face and even though it was about war, some of the best writing in television history was made with the writing of this show. My thoughts are that this show correlates with a lot of what is going on in the world today.
Think about it. Many of us find ourselves in impossible predicaments all the time and in many instances, they are situations over which we have little control. Oh, I don’t mean that we are over in a war-torn country and face those dangers day in and day out. But in today’s world there is always the possibility that we may find ourselves in the wrong place at the wrong time (recent mass shootings) or we may be told we have some nasty disease over which the doctors cannot control and our days are numbered.
The question becomes, how do we handle it? Our best hope/solution is that we will never be in such a situation. But being the age we old geezers are, the question that weighs heavily on our minds is: “Can we get out of the way of either of these situations?” Truth be told, the answer is probably “No”. Why, because no one can predict the future.
So, if you too, are a fan of M*A*S*H, like I was and still am, you will recall, Hawkeye had his own unorthodox way of handling most situations he became involved in. Remember, he didn’t ask to be in the war, let alone Korea, especially being a doctor as he was. How did he handle it? As we seen in the shows, Hawkeye makes the best of his life by lots of heavy drinking, carousing with the nurses, and his never-ending pranks he comes up with to get a rise out of those around him, especially the unpleasantly stiff and callous Major Frank Burns and/or Major “Hot Lips” Houlihan. He does this, (getting stoned) to avoid the truth of where he is, whenever possible (remember his beloved martinis that he used to conjure up in the tent he shared with B. J. Hunnicut). If you will recall they made their own homemade gin. Deep down inside, Hawkeye was a decent sort of guy and in my opinion one of the more memorable characters in the series.
So, what can we do to protect ourselves in such a world today? We cannot stop going shopping or to restaurants for fear someone may shoot us. Nor can we worry about coming down with some dreaded disease. Each of our bodies are different and each handles the daily eating, working, sleeping, resting and so forth we do day in and day out in our own different ways. We need to take each day as it comes and go with the flow. Should we be diagnosed with some curable or even non-curable disease, best thing we can do for ourselves and our loved ones, is to take the advice of the doctor and follow their instructions to the best of our ability. In other words, stay informed about what the disease is and how it affects us and well, just deal with it. As for the shopping or going out to eat, most of us old folk, enjoy going to public places to shop and/or eat and we cannot stop doing that. What we need to get in the habit of is to be a bit more vigilant about our surroundings while we are out and about.
I myself, find writing helps and thus the reason I keep a daily journal although truth be told, seeing that we are home more than we are out and about, I am certain my personal journal would be boring to the average reader. As much as I don’t really like the idea I am about to mention, fact is that we must be more like turtles. If you will recall, turtles have that outer shell designed to protect themselves and we too need to create what might be called an outer shell to protect us, if you will, from the life that goes on outside our own little world.
As I mentioned, I like to write and for me – researching and writing about wild and crazy comical things takes my mind off the weird stuff that is happening in our world today. It also gives me a lot of personal satisfaction when someone says to me: “I enjoyed your quip on Facebook this morning – keep it up.” Or when I get a comment or two about a monthly article I write for our community newsletter saying how much the article was enjoyed. At this stage of my life, I would have to say there are three things that get me out of bed every morning in spite of what all is going on in the world around me and those three things are: Family, My Writing, and Line dancing.
There are some other shows I truly miss – shows like the Beverly Hillbillies, The Honeymooners, Laugh-In, and who can’t forget the Carol Burnett Show. Now they were shows that made you forget both your personal troubles and those of the world. Why? Because they made you laugh yourself silly. The perfect way to end a day. But wait, there is also one more show (an oldie but a goodie) that we recently came across – well it has been a few months now – and that is “As Time Goes By” with Dame Judy Dench and Geoffrey Palmer. This by far is one of our favorite bedtime TV shows to watch. Watching this show enables us to go to bed with a smile on our face knowing that tomorrow is another day. One day at a time or as the title of the show reads – “As time goes by!”
Until next time!