“The great virtue of humor is that it is philosophizing in action, a bright silver thread in the great duvet of existence. And one can easily engage in it for an hour or two every day.” –Simon Critchley, On Humour
Someone once said: “You have to laugh at the things that hurt you just to keep yourself in balance, just to keep the world from running you plumb crazy.”
I have learned over the years that it is much easier for me to think of something funny when things do not go exactly as I have planned otherwise I tend to get moody, even disagreeable and all that does is upset others that may be with me.
Think about it – humor can take you away from whatever is bothering you, even if only for an instance, making whatever is bothering us easier to bear. It is like taking a “time out” or a “breather.” What we do during that minibreak from reality is regain our strength enabling us to gather our resources ready to move forward.
A person without a sense of humor is like a wagon without springs – jolted by every pebble in the road. – Henry Ward Beecher, American clergyman
If we look at life that we are here to have a good time, then we should be doing exactly that – looking for whatever opportunity we can find to enjoy ourselves, and in the process, instead of becoming angry or upset with others in our company, look upon them as playmates versus the enemy.
This thought process holds true in many a situation. For instance, instead of becoming upset because traffic is held up ahead of you, think of something funny to occupy your time while waiting for traffic to clear. Becoming upset and angry over things out of your control does nobody any good. As a matter of fact, think of how bad you would really feel, if the next morning while having your coffee, you read about the accident that held up traffic on the road you were on yesterday and learned that several people died.
Sort of puts why we shouldn’t be so quick to get upset over things that are out of our control in perspective, doesn’t it?
Let me conclude this piece with the following:
“There are things known and there are things unknown, and in between are the doors of perception.” – Aldous Huxley