Humor

Be Funny!

“The great virtue of humor is that it is philosophizing in action, a bright silver thread in the great duvet of existence. And one can easily engage in it for an hour or two every day.” –Simon Critchley, On Humour

Someone once said: “You have to laugh at the things that hurt you just to keep yourself in balance, just to keep the world from running you plumb crazy.”

I have learned over the years that it is much easier for me to think of something funny when things do not go exactly as I have planned otherwise I tend to get moody, even disagreeable and all that does is upset others that may be with me.

Think about it – humor can take you away from whatever is bothering you, even if only for an instance, making whatever is bothering us easier to bear. It is like taking a “time out” or a “breather.” What we do during that minibreak from reality is regain our strength enabling us to gather our resources ready to move forward.

A person without a sense of humor is like a wagon without springs – jolted by every pebble in the road. – Henry Ward Beecher, American clergyman

If we look at life that we are here to have a good time, then we should be doing exactly that – looking for whatever opportunity we can find to enjoy ourselves, and in the process, instead of becoming angry or upset with others in our company, look upon them as playmates versus the enemy.

This thought process holds true in many a situation. For instance, instead of becoming upset because traffic is held up ahead of you, think of something funny to occupy your time while waiting for traffic to clear. Becoming upset and angry over things out of your control does nobody any good. As a matter of fact, think of how bad you would really feel, if the next morning while having your coffee, you read about the accident that held up traffic on the road you were on yesterday and learned that several people died.

Sort of puts why we shouldn’t be so quick to get upset over things that are out of our control in perspective, doesn’t it?

Let me conclude this piece with the following:

“There are things known and there are things unknown, and in between are the doors of perception.” – Aldous Huxley

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Every Day is an Adventure

Be adventurous!

“To me, it is a joy that “no man knoweth what a day may bring forth,” and that life is a journey from one discovery to another. It makes of every day a real adventure; and if things are not to my liking today, why, “There’s a whole day tomorrow that ain’t tetched yet,” as the old man said.”

And yet another of the wit and wisdom sayings of Laura Ingalls Wilder. How true is this statement? Should we wake up to unforeseen problems that we didn’t expect, well, we should just go about attending to them the best we can because no matter how tight we close our eyes, they will still be there when we open them. Best to tackle them now and be away with them because as was just recently mentioned “There’s a whole day tomorrow that ain’t tetched yet!” Chances are that it will be better than today.

Lessons that can be learned from this passage is that not every day is the same and as we all know – in life – there will be ‘ups and downs’ and so, if today is a ‘down’ type day – best we can do is face it, do what we can – and be done with it with the hope that tomorrow will be a better day.

We all have our own demons to deal with every day. It is how we deal with them that will make tomorrow a better day. We can face them and be done with them by day’s end, looking forward to a new start the next day, or we can  fuss and fume about them all day, subsequently carrying over the negative vibes to the next day and spoil whatever might have been waiting for us. There are reasons for the saying: “Tomorrow will be a better day!” I prefer the former of the two actions.

That’s my two cents and I am sticking with it.

Comfort Zone

I am going to go out on a limb with regards this post and change the way I write. They say you are to write what you know about but to be truthful – my career was in the insurance field when I was working but I have been retired too many years now to write about that so instead of doing something comical (My usual form) for this post – I will add a human touch to my writings.

Recently I had to go to the ER to get checked out for some unknown symptoms that were bothering me. This post is not about me or the results of that visit. To put everyone’s mind at ease, nothing serious was found and I was sent on my way with some simple instructions to follow that they thought might correct the situation. Enough said about that.

Even though I was supposed to be home resting, there happened to be a “Fair” in town and seeing that I was not in any pain or unable to do anything, we decided to attend the fair. A few hours of sunshine walking around the fairgrounds taking in the different vendors and such might take my mind off the matter. I am a ‘people watcher’ as I could sit in an airport or somewhere that there are people coming and going and be quite content for hours on end. Same holds true when visiting and walking through the fairgrounds. The people one sees is amazing!

For instance, I seen an adult male in a wheelchair, noticeably created just for this individual as it was motorized, had a speech synthesizer, and well, let’s just say it was custom made so that this individual could function despite whatever disabilities put him in the chair to begin with. The gentleman was surrounded by family and/or friends and despite his situation, he was smiling and apparently quite happy and content while engrossed in a discussion with all of them.

Later I passed several individuals that were very over-weight. One thought that crossed my mind was the amount of energy they must possess to do the things most of us take for granted day in and day out. Most people would look at an overweight person and say to themselves – why did they allow themselves to get that way. I look at them and wonder what type of glandular problem they might have and how hard it must be for them to do the things we do day in and day out naturally without thought.

In walking we also passed a mother feeding her child who was in a wheelchair. There were also elderly people strolling down the midway, and I use the term – elderly – loosely because I myself am on the upside of hitting age 79, individuals walking with canes, walkers, and so forth enjoying a nice day at the fair. I might add, that in each of the instances described above, everyone had smiles on their faces and were truly enjoying themselves.

Now, let me back up for a minute. In view of my recent trip to the ER and the fact that they could not diagnose exactly what my problem was, I got to thinking: “Hmmm, does this mean I will have to contend with this queasy stomach feeling forever?” Which in turn caused me to remember something I read recently from the “Wit and Wisdom” of Laura Ingalls Wilder and I quote:

“The man who had said the shield was white found the side he was now looking at to be black, while the one who had declared the shield was black found himself facing the white side, so each got the other’s point of view and felt very foolish that they had fought over so simple a thing. It makes a difference when you’re in the other fellow’s place.”

While the above quote apparently dealt with two individuals arguing about one thing or another, and it was only when they put themselves in the other’s shoes did they see the light, so to speak, point is, when we are thinking to ourselves, “Woe is me, I have it so bad,” we should stop for one moment and put ourselves in another’s shoes. I would venture to say that none of us would think our problems are true problems in light of what others must go through each and every day.

By my observations at the fair, my little bellyache, is child’s play in the overall scheme of things. With that I will enjoy my bland diet and get on with my day.

Until next time!